Hello everyone. On Sat. June 3, from 1-5, you are invited to bring your List for some valuable personal time to update your List. We will be in the Guanajuato Room downstairs at the Ashland Library. The fee is by donation, and we look forward to seeing you!
When I sat down to write this article, I began writing about decision making, as friend had recently asked me about how to use their Lists in that way. So, the second half this post is about decision making with your List. What happened next, however, was very interesting.
For the Birds!
Driving along Highway 66, suddenly a blue jay landed in front of my car, and there was just no way to avoid it: “Thunk,” and the blue jay was gone. Two days later, the same thing happened with a sparrow. –Not to mention a beautiful peacock that arrived on our doorstep, “out of the blue,” about four weeks ago, and sandpipers arrived in our yard just yesterday, when we usually only see them on the Coast. The reason for all these events is still unclear to me; however, when such “coincidences” happen, especially 3 times or more, you don’t need to know the exact reasons why, you just need to act. So, here is a new List wording that I am adding to my List.
“…having birds safe and secure at all times….”
In asking why this might be happening, a good friend told me that often birds are very good environmental indicators. Perhaps this is the case. Below is a link to an article explaining this situation. Below that is a link to relevant environmental wordings that I have shared previously on my website.
These images of birds are actually from our trip to Hawaii, and the Hilo’s Panaewa Zoo, the only Rain Forest Zoo in the US: a wonderful place to visit!
And Now, Helpful Hints about Decision Making
One of the great things about the List is that you can use it to help you make decisions, large and small. I thought I’d take some time to review how this works with the List, and perhaps you can use some of these wordings and techniques during our List Update Class or on your own.
The time-honoured wording to help with decision making is the following:
“…making the best possible decisions and actions for me….”
Call me a grammar stickler, but over the years, I have personally changed this wording to two separate wordings, shown below:
“…making the best possible decision for me….”
“…taking the best possible actions for me….”
(Grammatically speaking, the verb “making” doesn’t work properly with verb and object “taking actions.”)
Also, while we sometimes combine concepts in a List statement, the List works best when wordings are kept simple, containing only one main idea, and when wordings are clear and concise so that even a young child can understand them.
Another way to use the List to help make decision, besides having the general statements above, is to address your situations specifically.
First of all, you can address the situation a bit more specifically than above, but also generally. For example, say you want to move. You know you want a new place to live, and you have several options.
First of all, you should have the statement on your List,
“…living in the best possible location for me….”
Next, if you need to sell your home before you move, you would want to add this statement:
“…knowing that I sell my home at ___________(address) for the highest best possible price for me….” (This wording has been very successful for List Alumni.)
“…owning the best possible home for me, for the lowest, best possible price for me, fulfilling my wants, needs and desires….”
Then, as you begin your search, when trying to decide between two specific items, you can put both items on your List, and then see which flows more easily into your life.
“I am owning the property at _______________(address 1)….” And,
“I am owning the property at _______________(address 2)….”
Once these two statements are on your List, watch what comes in to you. If people are talking with you or approaching you about one alternative over the other, this is most likely the best direction for you: this, especially if it happens more than once, and ideally three times. (This three time factor is also the reason why I felt moved to add wordings to my List about bird safety.)
You may also need to take actions towards these decisions. Most likely, one will flow, and one will not.
Lastly, trust your feelings. If the direction you are going in is uncomfortable, it is very likely not be the one for you.
Thank you, and we look forward to seeing you on the 3rd of June! Remember, too, to refer your friends to our next List Class, being held on Nov. 4th and 5th.